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You Can’t Take It With You

As we step into a new year, many of us find ourselves caught in the familiar cycle of making resolutions – promises to ourselves that often fade as quickly as they’re made. But what if this year, instead of adding more to our already busy lives, we took a different approach? What if we embraced subtraction instead of addition?

The concept is simple yet profound: you can’t take it with you. As we reflect on the past year and look ahead, it’s worth considering what baggage we’re unnecessarily carrying into the future. Are we holding onto busyness, criticism, anger, or unforgiveness? These are weights that drag us down, preventing us from living the life we’re truly meant to live.

Jesus, in His wisdom, offers us a radically different perspective. In Matthew 6:19-21, He says:

“Do not lay up for yourselves treasures on earth, where moth and rust destroy and where thieves break in and steal, but lay up for yourselves treasures in heaven, where neither moth nor rust destroys and where thieves do not break in and steal. For where your treasure is, there your heart will be also.”

This passage isn’t just about material possessions. It’s an invitation to shift our focus from the temporal to the eternal. It’s a call to live with an eternal perspective.

Imagine time as a long rope stretching from before the foundation of the earth into eternity. Our entire lives – from birth to death – are represented by just a tiny flag on that rope. In light of eternity, our earthly existence is but a blink. Yet, how often do we live as if this brief moment is all there is?

The Apostle Paul understood this well. In 2 Corinthians 4:16-18, he writes:

“So we do not lose heart. Though our outer self is wasting away, our inner self is being renewed day by day. For this light momentary affliction is preparing for us an eternal weight of glory beyond all comparison, as we look not to the things that are seen but to the things that are unseen. For the things that are seen are transient, but the things that are unseen are eternal.”

Paul reminds us that our current struggles, no matter how overwhelming they may seem, are temporary in light of eternity. This doesn’t diminish our pain or challenges, but it does offer us hope and a broader perspective.

So, what should we be pursuing? What holds eternal value? The answer lies in the fruit of the Spirit, described in Galatians 5:22-23:

“But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, self-control; against such things there is no law.”

These qualities aren’t just nice additions to our personality; they’re transformative attributes that shape our character for eternity. They’re not achieved through mere behavior management but through a heart transformation that comes from walking closely with God.

Building an eternal character requires intentionality. It’s about training ourselves spiritually with the same dedication an athlete applies to physical training. Philippians 4:8 offers practical guidance:

“Finally, brothers, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is just, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence, if there is anything worthy of praise, think about these things.”

This verse provides a blueprint for renewing our minds. By focusing on what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, and commendable, we begin to align our thoughts with God’s perspective.

But how do we practically apply this in our daily lives? Here are some suggestions:

1. Read the Bible regularly: God’s Word has the power to transform lives. Make it a daily habit to engage with Scripture, allowing its truths to shape your thoughts and actions.

2. Pray consistently: Prayer isn’t about eloquent words; it’s about honest conversation with God. Share your heart with Him, knowing He cares about every aspect of your life.

3. Practice the presence of God: Remember that God is with you always, not just during “spiritual” activities. Whether you’re at work, doing chores, or spending time with family, acknowledge His presence and invite Him into every moment.

4. Be intentional: Just as we’re intentional about our careers, health, or relationships, we need to be intentional about our spiritual growth. Seek out opportunities for learning and growth, whether through classes, small groups, or mentoring relationships.

As we embrace this eternal perspective, we may find that our priorities shift. Things that once seemed crucial may lose their urgency, while matters of the heart and spirit take center stage. This doesn’t mean we neglect our earthly responsibilities, but rather that we approach them with a new mindset – one that’s focused on eternal values.

Imagine reaching the end of this year and being able to say, “The road wasn’t easy, but I’m different. I’m new. And it’s all because of the Lord.” That’s the transformative power of living with an eternal perspective.

So, as we stand at the threshold of a new year, let’s challenge ourselves to think differently. Instead of making resolutions we may not keep, let’s commit to embracing an eternal perspective. Let’s choose to lay down the burdens of criticism, anger, and unforgiveness. Let’s pursue the fruit of the Spirit and build characters that will stand the test of eternity.

Remember, you can’t take it with you – but you can become someone who’s ready for eternity. This year, may we all grow in love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. May we fix our eyes not on what is seen, but on what is unseen. For what is seen is temporary, but what is unseen is eternal.

As you reflect on these truths, consider: What do you need to leave behind this year? What eternal qualities do you want to cultivate? How can you start living today with eternity in mind? The journey of a thousand miles begins with a single step. Today, take that step towards an eternal perspective, and watch as God transforms your life from the inside out.

Cove Group Leader Guide

Cove Group Guide

Key Takeaways:

1. We should live with an eternal perspective rather than focusing solely on temporary earthly matters.
2. Pursue things of eternal value, like the fruit of the Spirit, rather than accumulating worldly treasures.
3. Build an eternal character by intentionally focusing on what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, and commendable.

Discussion Questions:

1. Bjorn mentioned several things people often carry into the new year, like busyness, criticism, anger, and unforgiveness. Which of these do you struggle with most? Why do you think it’s so hard to let go of these things?

2. Read Matthew 6:19-21. How does having an eternal perspective change the way we view our current circumstances and priorities?

3. In the message, Bjorn used a visual aid to illustrate the brevity of our earthly lives compared to eternity. How does this perspective impact your approach to daily life and long-term goals?

4. Discuss the fruit of the Spirit listed in Galatians 5:22-23. Which of these qualities do you find most challenging to cultivate in your own life? How might focusing on these change your relationships and outlook?

5. Bjorn emphasized the importance of building an eternal character. What practical steps can you take to train yourself spiritually, similar to how people train physically?

6. Reflect on Philippians 4:8. How might intentionally focusing on these positive attributes transform your thought patterns and overall mindset?

Practical Applications:

1. Choose one fruit of the Spirit to focus on this week. Journal about how you see God developing this quality in your life.

2. Create a visual reminder (e.g., a phone wallpaper or sticky note) with the list from Philippians 4:8 to help redirect your thoughts throughout the day.

3. Set aside 10-15 minutes each day this week to read your Bible and pray, focusing on developing your relationship with God.

4. Identify one “earthly treasure” or worldly concern that you need to release. Take a concrete step to let it go and replace it with an eternal perspective.

5. Practice the presence of God by setting reminders throughout your day to acknowledge His presence in everyday moments.

Closing Prayer:
Thank God for the eternal perspective He offers us through Christ. Ask for His help in building eternal character and pursuing things of lasting value in the coming year.

5 Day Devotion Guide

5 Day Devotion Guide

Here’s a 5-day Bible reading plan and devotional guide based on the themes from the transcription:

Day 1: Eternal Perspective

Matthew 6:19-21, 2 Corinthians 4:16-18

In a world that often prioritizes temporary pleasures and achievements, Jesus calls us to adopt an eternal perspective. Today’s readings remind us that our true treasures are not found in material possessions or earthly accolades, but in the things that last forever. As you reflect on these verses, consider: What areas of your life are you investing in that have eternal value? How might shifting your focus from temporary to eternal change your daily decisions and priorities? Ask God to help you see your life through His eternal lens and to guide you in storing up treasures in heaven.

Day 2: The Fruit of the Spirit

Galatians 5:22-23

The fruit of the Spirit represents the character traits that God desires to cultivate within us. These qualities – love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control – are not just good behaviors, but evidence of the Holy Spirit’s work in our lives. As you meditate on this passage, reflect on which fruits are flourishing in your life and which ones need more nurturing. Remember, these are not traits we can produce on our own, but the result of surrendering to God’s work in us. Pray for the Holy Spirit to continue developing these qualities in you, transforming you more into the likeness of Christ.

Day 3: Renewing Your Mind

Philippians 4:8, Romans 12:2

Our thoughts have a powerful influence on our actions and overall spiritual health. Today’s readings encourage us to intentionally focus our minds on what is true, honorable, just, pure, lovely, and commendable. This isn’t always easy in a world full of negativity and distraction. Consider the content you regularly consume through media, conversations, and internal dialogue. How aligned is it with these biblical standards? Challenge yourself to be more intentional about what you allow to occupy your thoughts. Ask God to help you recognize negative thought patterns and to replace them with His truth and perspective.

Day 4: Practicing God’s Presence

Psalm 139:7-12, Joshua 1:9

One of the most profound truths of our faith is that God is always with us. Today’s passages remind us that there is nowhere we can go where God is not present. Yet often, we live our daily lives unaware of His constant companionship. Reflect on your typical day – in what moments do you tend to forget God’s presence? How might your approach to challenges, decisions, or even mundane tasks change if you were continually aware that God is with you? Practice acknowledging God’s presence throughout your day, especially in those moments when you feel alone or overwhelmed. Invite Him into every aspect of your life, from the significant to the seemingly insignificant.

Day 5: Living for Eternity

Colossians 3:1-4, 1 Peter 1:3-9

As believers, we are called to live with one foot in eternity. Today’s readings encourage us to set our hearts and minds on things above, recognizing that our true life is hidden with Christ in God. This eternal perspective should inform how we navigate our earthly existence. Consider the trials and joys you’re currently experiencing – how do they look different when viewed through the lens of eternity? Reflect on areas where you might be too focused on temporary concerns at the expense of eternal priorities. Ask God to help you live each day with the awareness that you are a citizen of heaven, just passing through this world. Let this eternal mindset shape your values, decisions, and interactions with others.